A Romantic 5-Day Vietnam Itinerary: Hanoi Heritage & Ha Long Bay 5-Star Cruise
Vietnam stirs the senses—temples echo with centuries of dynastic history, boulevards whisper of French Indochina, and kitchens bustle with herbs, smoke, and zesty lime. In five days, you’ll savor Hanoi’s lakes and literary landmarks before drifting among Ha Long Bay’s limestone karsts on a 5-star overnight cruise.
Hanoi’s Old Quarter has sold silk, spices, and silver for a millennium; today it adds Michelin-starred tasting menus and café culture to the mix. A vintage Jeep ride at dusk and coffee by Hoàn Kiếm Lake bring the city’s soul front and center—romance woven into daily life.
Practical notes: Vietnam offers a straightforward e-visa for many nationalities (check your passport’s latest guidance). The currency is Vietnamese đồng (VND). In the North, October–April brings cooler, drier days (mist can add moody drama to Ha Long), while May–September is warmer with the odd shower—dreamy either way from a private balcony cabin.
Hanoi
Hanoi blends Confucian calm with café buzz: the Temple of Literature honors scholars, while egg coffee (born in the 1940s) keeps poets plotting. Stroll around Hoàn Kiếm Lake to Ngọc Sơn Temple, explore the storied Metropole’s halls, and toast sunset over West Lake from a rooftop.
Top highlights for couples include a private cyclo or vintage Jeep circuit through the Old Quarter, a water-puppet performance, and a serene visit to Trấn Quốc Pagoda. Foodies can swing from street-side bún chả to tasting menus at GIA or T.U.N.G. Dining.
- Where to stay (Hotels.com/VRBO):
- Sofitel Legend Metropole Hanoi (heritage icon, serious spa and pool): Book on Hotels.com
- Lotte Hotel Hanoi (skyline views, stellar rooftop bar): Book on Hotels.com
- Hanoi La Siesta Hotel & Spa (Old Quarter boutique favorite): Book on Hotels.com
- Somerset Grand Hanoi (spacious suites for longer stays): Book on Hotels.com
- Browse apartments and villas: Hanoi stays on VRBO
- Compare hotels broadly: Hanoi hotels on Hotels.com
- Getting in: Fly into Hanoi (HAN). Search fares: Trip.com Flights or Kiwi.com.
Day 1: Arrival, Old Quarter First Tastes, and a Sunset Jeep Ride
Morning: In transit. If you arrive early, check in and decompress at Le Spa du Metropole with a couples’ Vietnamese herbal massage.
Afternoon: Stretch your legs around Hoàn Kiếm Lake and Ngọc Sơn Temple. Coffee break at Café Giang for original egg coffee (rich, frothy, and perfect to share). Late lunch: Bún Chả Hương Liên for smoky pork and noodles (try the famous “Obama combo”) or Chả Cá Thăng Long for sizzling dill-turmeric fish.
Evening: See the city from a vintage open-air Jeep—great breeze, great photos, and stops for snacks.

Book: Hanoi Jeep Tour—Food, Culture & Fun (private/ small group; typically 3–4 hours). Post-ride dinner: Le Beaulieu (classic French at the Metropole) for a celebratory first night, or modern Vietnamese at HOME Hanoi in a restored villa. Nightcap at the Metropole’s Bamboo Bar.
Day 2: Temples, Literature, Lakeside Strolls, and a Tasting-Menu Date
Morning: Visit the 11th-century Temple of Literature, then wander the Fine Arts Museum nearby. Breakfast choices: Blackbird Coffee (flat whites and almond croissants) or The Hanoi Social Club (brunchy fare in a leafy townhouse). Slurp a late-morning bowl at Phở Gia Truyền (26 Bát Đàn)—short line, sublime broth.
Afternoon: Head to Trấn Quốc Pagoda on West Lake, then pause at Maison Marou for single-origin Vietnamese chocolate and iced cacao. If you like history, the Hoa Lò Prison Museum adds context to the city’s 20th-century story.
Evening: Dress up for a tasting menu. GIA Restaurant (seasonal Vietnamese storytelling; intimate, refined) or T.U.N.G. Dining (playful, Nordic-influenced). Pre- or post-dinner cocktails: Summit Lounge (Lotte Hotel skyline) or speakeasy-style at Ne Cocktail Bar (signature pho-inspired tipple).
Day 3: Pamper Day, Crafts, and Water Puppets
Morning: Slow morning spa session—Metropole’s Le Spa or La Siesta Spa for a couples’ ritual with local botanicals. Coffee at Tranquil Books & Coffee (quiet, cozy).
Afternoon: Handcrafts and keepsakes in the Old Quarter—look for lacquerware on Hàng Gai and handwoven textiles at small boutiques. Lunch at Ngon Garden (garden courtyard and regional specialties) or Pizza 4P’s Tràng Tiền (house-made burrata and creative pies if you need a non-Vietnamese pause).
Evening: Thăng Long Water Puppet Theatre by the lake (classic and charming). Dinner at Press Club Hanoi for refined Vietnamese with city views, or return to a favorite spot. Optional foodie adventure by motorbike (female-led teams available) if you want buzzier nightlife:

Book: Hanoi By Night Foodie Motorbike Tour (about 4 hours). Expect street eats from bánh cuốn to bún chả and sweet chè—plenty to share.
Ha Long Bay
Where jade-green water meets limestone giants, Ha Long and Lan Ha bays form Vietnam’s most cinematic seascape. An overnight cruise lets you wake to mist-softened peaks, kayak into grottoes, and learn to roll spring rolls at sunset.
Couples love a balcony cabin with bathtub, a gentle sunrise tai chi session, and squid fishing under the stars. With a 5-star vessel, meals skew fine-dining Vietnamese with seafood specialties—think honey-grilled prawns and coconut caramel.
- Where to stay pre/post-cruise:
- Vinpearl Resort & Spa Ha Long (island resort feel, spacious pool): Book on Hotels.com
- Paradise Elegance Cruise (elegant boat with piano lounge): Book on Hotels.com
- Ha Long DC Hotel (solid city base if you prefer land): Book on Hotels.com
- Browse villas/apartments: Ha Long Bay stays on VRBO | Ha Long Bay hotels on Hotels.com
- Getting there from Hanoi: Private limousine van (2.5–3 hours; ~$90–150 per car, one-way) is the most comfortable. Premium coach takes ~3.5 hours. A scenic seaplane (about 45 minutes) is the splurge option. For broader rail in Asia, search: Trip.com Trains (note: no direct Hanoi–Ha Long train commonly used by travelers).
Day 4: Hanoi to Ha Long Bay, Balcony Check-In, Kayaks and Sunset
Morning: Depart Hanoi around 8:00–8:30 a.m. by private car/van. Arrive at the pier late morning for check-in and welcome drinks.
Afternoon: Embark, lunch onboard (prawn spring rolls, grilled fish, seasonal salads). Settle into your balcony cabin, then kayak among limestone outcrops or swim off a sheltered beach. Bring a waterproof pouch for your phone.
Evening: Sunset canapés and a quick cooking class (nuoc cham secrets!), then a candlelit dinner. Try squid fishing after, or retreat to the balcony with a nightcap. Recommended cruise:

Book: Overnight Ha Long Bay Cruise (5-Star, Balcony Cabin, 2D1N). Alternative premium option with classic styling:

Book: Hera Grand Luxury Cruise (All-Inclusive)
Day 5: Dawn Tai Chi, Cave Adventure, and Departure
Morning: Sunrise tai chi on deck, light breakfast, then a tender to a limestone cave or floating village (itinerary varies by ship). Brunch onboard as you sail back through the karsts.
Afternoon: Disembark late morning. Your driver returns you to Hanoi (2.5–3 hours) for an afternoon flight home. Search return flights: Trip.com Flights or Kiwi.com. If time allows, grab a farewell bowl at Phở Thìn Lò Đúc or a light lunch at Highway4 (northern specialties and rice spirits).
Evening: Fly out. If you’re extending, add a night back at the Metropole and toast with a French 75 at the Bamboo Bar.
- Dining & café cheat sheet (Hanoi): Café Giang (egg coffee), Blackbird Coffee (specialty beans), Tranquil Books & Coffee (quiet nook), Phở Gia Truyền (old-school pho), Bún Chả Hương Liên (iconic charcoal grill), Chả Cá Thăng Long (Hanoi’s signature fish), HOME Hanoi (refined Vietnamese), GIA/T.U.N.G. (tasting menus), Le Beaulieu (French classic), Press Club (terrace views), Summit Lounge (sunset skyline).
Cost guide (for planning): Private Hanoi–Ha Long transfer ~$90–150 per car one-way; overnight 5-star Ha Long cruise cabins commonly range ~$350–700 per cabin per night depending on season and inclusions; Jeep tour from roughly ~$55–80 per person; Michelin tasting menus from ~$80–150 per person before wine.
With heritage hotels, chef-led dinners, and a balcony cabin gliding through lantern-lit waters, this 5-day plan balances romance and realism. You’ll leave with a camera roll of sunsets—and a promise to return for central Vietnam’s beaches and lantern-lit Hội An next time.